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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Jessica Tristan who was born in California on May 28, 1979 and passed away on December 08, 2006 in Honolulu Hawaii at the age of 27. We will remember her forever.
Jessica Marie Tristan was my world! Jessica was the completion of who I am. Since the night I meet her, she was by my side, everything we did we did together. Jessica was my queen, my goddess, my reason. Time apart was not an option for us. Everything Jessica was, was perfect. She took care of me in every way, we were always on the same page. Jessica, taught me more about myself then I could of ever learned.
Her brilliant mind constantly writing poems which depict the struggles she was having within her mind, the beauty and calm she saw in death. Jessica was so brilliant, finishing her junior college portion or her life with three separated degrees, Humanities, Math, Liberal Arts. Continued on to get accepted and become part of the University of Hawaii at Manoa, scoring high in her classes, her brilliant mind allowed her to take three languages (Greek, Latin, and Hebrew) at once along with classes on Poetry (John Milton one of her favorites) and astronomy and Calculus, a real classical literature major. All classes which I feel best summed up Jessica’s joys in life and quest for knowledge.
My beautiful and brilliant girlfriend Jessica has passed; she touched my life like no other. I know she touched all who crossed paths with her. I hope you’ll remember her for all she was to you and all she left with you.
Life is very unpredictable.
We hear it all the time to slow down and enjoy life, but we don’t slow down, we keep stressing and pressing forward. We’ve got to do what we must to survive. Finding someone to add to your reason for survival, someone who needs you to slow down and notice, notice that life is about each other and is as precious and the ones we have in it.
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Miss you forever.. / Shelly Burlew (Old Friend )
13 years and sooooo many good times we all shared.. I miss you soooo much. I know you are watching over us. |
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I Miss You / Shelly Burlew (Old Friend )
My dear Jessica, I will never ever get off this site. I think about you every second. What stands out the most is when we rode your horses in the middle of the night and I was so afraid and you were laughing so hard you peed your pants, n...
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Very sorry to hear about this / Joey Bondage (friend)
To Jeff and Jessica's family,
I'm very sorry to hear about this tragic loss. I know how much she meant to you Jeff. We had some fun times on the road together. Narcoleptic Youth sends our condolences to you Jeff, and to Jessica's family and frie...
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i'mstillsad / Danny Covey (friend)
i love you guys |
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such little time together / Matthew Durley (old old friend )
I m sorry time and circumstance prevented me from growing up with jessica. as a child the first thing I looked forward to in the morning was running over to her house to play. your family was so good to us. we will all see her again, it is promi...
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Our Darling Princess / Sherri Tristan (mother) Read >> |
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My Little Girl / Frank Tristan (Father) Read >> |
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from Hawaii / Jack (new friend ) Read >> |
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aloha / Jason Miller (new friend ) Read >> |
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Jessica / Patricia Aragon (Hoped to be Mother-In-Law ) Read >> |
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I LOVE YOU GEMINI / Candida Lewis (Best Friend more like a Sister ) Read >> |
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Jess... / Martina Colegio (Friend) Read >> |
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Poem / Jeff Aragon (Best Friend/fiance ) Read >> |
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| Her legacy |
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For now again I stand alone
The world around me has become the ugly side effect
Of my internal hallucinogenic overdose:
My bloods runs thin from injecting my
Veins with the poisoned euphoric visions
Of the reality I wish I was
My demons are the truths I kept
Buried underneath my wishful delusions,
Delusions that the sunshined because
The world could be a beautiful place
Not because it is slowly, agonizingly climbing
Its way to death in fusion suicide
Stars don’t glow, they die, and although
We think we see beauty of now, we see
The dead of long ago
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Scan 1
Haunting whispers leave empty echoes deep
Within my thoughts.
My heart is blistered by the sting of icy
Assumptions, yet
My tongue is sour with bitter
Expectations.
Bless the fallen for no more is
Wanted from them
Rejoice in their release, freedom from
Their servant curse
Bastards above all, below only
The highest judgment
But I, I must please both the blessed
And the wicked in this
Hypocrite’s safe haven
I am above none, yet beneath
All, and all are my judges
Even my own soul cannot be
Satisfied with the path of my ways
‘Tis not sadness, anger, nor resentment
Which fill me…emptiness
Only emptiness
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| Jessica's Photo Album |
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